
Meet Connie Starr
Pet Loss Bereavement Specialist
I am a certified Pet Loss Bereavement Specialist who has counseled hundreds of people after the devastating loss of a pet, or as they say, their best friend. I practice Dr. Alan Wolfelt's Companioning model and I also utilize Cognitive Behavioral Therapy tools and techniques. Coupled with compassionate support, I also provide real, tangible coping strategies to help you move forward in your grieving journey.
I hold a Master's Degree in Counseling Psychology from City University and am a certified grief counselor through the American Institute of Health Care Professionals. I obtained a Pet Loss Bereavement Specialist certification through The Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement.
In 2006 I developed and implemented a Pet Loss Support Group sponsored by the Seattle Animal Shelter which I continue to facilitate. I also volunteer as a Chat Room Host for PetLoss Partners.
When I'm not helping pet parents navigate their grief journeys, you can most often find me outside on a dogsled behind my team of huskies, traveling the snowy trails of the Cascade Mountains in Washington State. They are my family and my heart.

A Talk in the Woods
Pet Loss Bereavement Counseling
Compassionate Support and Healing Strategies
Providing Support For:

Pet Loss

After the loss of a beloved pet, you may be hearing, "You can get another dog," or "It was just a cat." I know these statements aren't true.
Anticipatory Bereavement
If your pet is aging or has received that awful diagnosis of a terminal illness, I can help you navigate this time.

Missing Pets
When a pet goes missing it is common to experience a lack of closure. When coupled with few people who understand and support you, the healing process can be delayed. I can help you move towards a place of peace, forgiveness and resolution.
Accidental Death

Coping with guilt, blame and anger after a tragic accident is difficult and some emotions can delay the grieving process. I can help you address them in a healthy way.
Behavioral Euthanasia
When a pet is euthanized due to behavioral issues such as aggression, the guilt and feelings of failure can be overwhelming. I will walk with you through these emotions so you can honor the relationship and understand your grief.
Surrendering a Pet
Rehoming a pet is still pet loss and you may not be receiving the support you need.

Services and Rates
I do not have a physical office; all sessions are held remotely from a secure, private location.
Zoom Consultation: $65 for a 60-minute session
Phone Consultation: $65 for a 60-minute session